diff --git a/languages/en-us.js b/languages/en-us.js
index 2449125..f794410 100644
--- a/languages/en-us.js
+++ b/languages/en-us.js
@@ -168,6 +168,7 @@ module.exports.strings = {
   WISHLIST_REMOVE_GUARD: 'Not correct user',
   WISHLIST_REMOVE_MISSING: 'Failed to find item',
   WISHLIST_REMOVE_SUCCESS: 'Successfully removed from wishlist',
+  WISHLIST_SUGGEST: 'Suggest item',
   WISHLIST_TITLE: name => `${_CC.config.siteTitle} - Wishlist - ${name}`,
   WISHLIST_UNPLEDGE_GUARD: 'You did not pledge for this', // should never happen unless someone makes their own http requests
   WISHLIST_UNPLEDGE_MISSING: 'Failed to find item',
diff --git a/routes/wishlist/index.js b/routes/wishlist/index.js
index a54d6db..fe6f4b0 100644
--- a/routes/wishlist/index.js
+++ b/routes/wishlist/index.js
@@ -99,7 +99,7 @@ module.exports = (db) => {
     item.price = productData?.price
     item.image = productData?.image
     item.addedBy = req.user._id
-    item.pledgedBy = (req.user._id === req.params.user ? undefined : req.user._id)
+    item.pledgedBy = (req.user._id === req.params.user || req.body.suggest ? undefined : req.user._id)
     item.note = req.body.note
     if (url) item.url = url
     if (!url) item.name = req.body.itemUrlOrName
@@ -150,7 +150,6 @@ module.exports = (db) => {
             return res.redirect(`/wishlist/${req.params.user}`)
           }
           docs.rows[i].doc.wishlist[j].pledgedBy = undefined
-          if (docs.rows[i].doc.wishlist[j].addedBy === req.user._id) docs.rows[i].doc.wishlist.splice(j, 1)
           await db.put(docs.rows[i].doc)
           req.flash('success', _CC.lang('WISHLIST_UNPLEDGE_SUCCESS'))
           return res.redirect(`/wishlist/${req.params.user}`)
diff --git a/views/wishlist.pug b/views/wishlist.pug
index 1668d42..23cdd63 100644
--- a/views/wishlist.pug
+++ b/views/wishlist.pug
@@ -215,9 +215,12 @@ block content
           name='note',
           placeholder=lang('WISHLIST_OPTIONAL')
         )
-    .field
+    .field.is-grouped
       .control
         input.button(type='submit' value=(req.user._id === req.params.user ? lang('WISHLIST_ADD') : lang('WISHLIST_PLEDGE_ITEM')))
+      if req.user._id !== req.params.user
+        .control
+          input.inline.button(type='submit', value=lang('WISHLIST_SUGGEST'), name='suggest')
   script(src=`${_CC.config.base}js/wishlist.js`)
 
 block print